Thanks for all the comments to my last post - I found them really interesting. It's nice because I never know who reads this.
I meant to post this a while ago but I thought it was too long. It's
my definition:
When I was 15, my best friend, Kevin, told me that my girl Diana cheated on me. We never spoke, I just shut her out. Stupid kid stuff.
Maybe a decade later, I drove by her home and, for some reason, I rang her doorbell. I expected her to slap me when she answered the door; instead, she let me in, gave me a smile and an apron. She had this huge bar of chocolate that she told me to chop for cookies.
So I went in and started chopping.
After a bit, I asked her, half-jokingly, what happened between us.
She stopped and answered:
You listened to Kevin but we both know that he was the first guy to ask me out after we broke up. So that makes you an idiot. I never cheated on you, you know that. I was your biggest fan. That makes me an idiot. You never stood up for me and I didn't understand why, because I was kind to you. I was on your side but you weren't on mine.
Why weren't you?I had no answer. Almost twenty years after the fact, I still have no answer. I don't remember anything else but I remember what she said.
That conversation started me off in being who I am now. In fact, I learned the phrases
biggest fan and
on your side that day.